okay - so gigglemom got a new roommate and they are 2 peas in a pod - she's really nice and it's almost like a slumber party in that room because they were up talking late etc.
funny thing is, the ambulance guys (who i've seen many many times over the past few weeks - one being really cute) put this woman in mom's room and then 15 minutes later- after the woman was settled and my mom and i met her - there was another stretcher that was about to be wheeled into the room with another person.
so. this woman (rose, the other pea in the pod) wasn't supposed to wind up in mom's room. she was supposed to be down the hall. i think God intervened and sent a really good roommate to mom. that's what happened. and they had to shove the other person in a different room.
as far as my "blasting an old, demented woman" - YEP. i will because it's my site.
so if you were trying to GUILT me by saying "That may well be you someday" - eh. no. that will not be me because i will have a few shotguns that i will have inherited from my father and before getting that fucked up into dementia, either it's a bullet or some pills. so how dare you attempt to pile guilt on me.
actually i DO blame the system for putting her in the same room with my mother. i DO blame the nurses for not coming to see what my mother wanted after buzzing 6 times over the course of 3 hours, yet, coming to the crazy ass lady's side within 1 minute of her buzzing.
and as far as improving money. well, perhaps when they stop telling my mother "sorry we were on break that's why we didn't get to you" (OVER THREE HOURS) then maybe we'll talk. my mother has paid a buttload of money into her insurance over the course of a few decades and she sure as hell shouldn't be in this shithole of a rehab.
oh and Kooky Hell-en McShittydrawers was sent upstairs to the 2nd floor where she broke into theoffice of the Director of the nursing home - and was promptly sent back over to the hospital (hopefully in a fucking straightjacket)
so if anyone chooses to comment on my site by trying to have sympathy for McShittydrawers, no, I don't have any. The daughter shouldn't have put her in the place to begin with to babysit her.
Call me cold, callous, whatever. I really am fed up with all of this shit. Seriously. So if anyone chooses to start in on me and giving the "oh you're wrong for saying this or that" - well, I would seriously think twice - or thrice - before flapping your yap.
I am bloated, tired, headachy, bleeding and not in the effing mood to deal with any of this.
